Safety Center

You're not alone out there. We've got you.

Real talk: meeting new people takes guts. Here's everything we do so you can relax and just enjoy the hangout.

Live hangout status
No active hangouts right now

When one starts, you'll see live check-ins here.

How IRL keeps it safe

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Everyone's verified

Real ID + selfie match before anyone gets on IRL. No catfish, no anonymous accounts.

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Public by default

First hangout is always somewhere public. No exceptions — we mean it.

We check in on you

15 minutes after you meet up, we send a quick 'all good?' Just tap a button.

Two-way reviews

Both of you rate each other. Bad patterns? We catch them and act fast.

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Money held safely

We hold the payment until after the hangout. No weird off-platform stuff.

Community rules
  • ✦ Platonic only. No flirting, no romance, no "but what if".
  • ✦ No off-app contact before a booking — keep it in IRL.
  • ✦ Treat people like a friend's cool roommate.
  • ✦ Cross a line, you're out. We don't do warnings on the big stuff.